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Love tips day 4

Do you realize that just taking the time to check out these tips everyday is helping to change your focus?  If you are focusing on rekindling the spark, you are already making a move toward it.  The trick now is to see everything as a positive.  Get excited about it.  See the endless possibilities and be excited about recreating that perfect relationship!  Enough babbling, here is tip number 4.

1.       Act as you did when you first met.  When we first start a relationship we do anything and everything we can to attract the object of our desire.  Once we have them, we often take them for granted and forget to do those things that helped create our relationship in the first place.  Think about it, wouldn’t you be thrilled if your spouse put forth as much effort now as they did when you first met?

If you would like to change or create a love life we can help.  Learn to let the Law of Attraction create your ideal relationship with the help of Intending Bliss.  Just visit http://www.intendingbliss.com/find_the_perfect_love.php and sign up to change your life in only 28 days!

Teresa's business success story

In addition to today’s entry with your Valentine’s love tip, I wanted to post a Law of Attraction success story today.  I have a friend, Teresa Cline, who was in Afghanistan with me.  I started Intending Bliss while there and needed pictures for my website, blog, ezine articles, etc.  Well what are the odds of finding a portrait photographer in the middle of a war zone?  Pretty darn good if you put out the intention and let the Universe fulfill your request.  Along came Teresa two days before she left base and she offered to take some photos for me.  Although I had known her, I had no idea before that day that she was a photographer.  The ones you see of me online were taken by her with her basic “desert proof” camera with no stylist, makeup artist, or major equipment.  It was just me, her, our camp, and her digital camera but she managed to get shots that were good enough for my needs.

Teresa wanted to publish books of her travels and do professional photography.  Well, you can now order two of her books, “From Kandahar to Kabul” and “From London to Cairo” filled with her pictures and stories at http://stores.lulu.com/bunnyluv1969 and she just put together a photography website at http://www.photographybyteresacline.com/.  Anyone who has tried to start a business or write a book knows how much time and dedication it takes as well as resources and luck.  Teresa put out her intentions and is now seeing them manifest; she is living her dream.  Please take a moment to check out her sites. 

Of course, if you would like to learn to manifest your dreams, then visit Intending Bliss at http://www.intendingbliss.com/find_your_edge_with_law_of_attraction.php and sign up to change your life in only 28 days!

Love Tip #3

Here it is, your tip to get those fires going again.  Check back again tomorrow for the next installment.

    Remember what it was that first attracted you.  Think back to the days when you first met.  Remember those days when they made your stomach do flips and when you couldn’t stay away.  Those qualities are still there.  If you aren’t seeing them anymore, odds are you aren’t looking.

If you would like to change or create a love life we can help.  Learn to let the Law of Attraction create your ideal relationship with the help of Intending Bliss.  Just visit http://www.intendingbliss.com/find_the_perfect_love.php and sign up to change your life in only 28 days!

Love tips Day 2

We are going to continue to focus on making Valentine’s Day 2008 your best ever by giving you new tips each day.  Read on for tip #2 and come back tomorrow for more!

1.       Make a list of all the things you love about your partner.  This list should be pages long and if it isn’t, you aren’t thinking hard enough.  You might want to start with the obvious; start with the physical.  Take every detail in from the top of their head to the bottom of their feet.  Every single person has attractive physical qualities.  List the ones you love about your partner.  Next you might want to keep a notepad with you throughout a week.  Note down everything your partner does that you love and appreciate.  This can be challenging since we tend to fall into routines and take things for granted.  This is the point exactly.

If you would like to change or create a love life we can help.  Learn to let the Law of Attraction create your ideal relationship with the help of Intending Bliss.  Just visit http://www.intendingbliss.com/find_the_perfect_love.php and sign up to change your life in only 28 days!

Suggestions for Renewing the Spark

With February and Valentine’s Day coming up, thoughts will soon turn toward love if they aren’t there already.  In honor of this occasion, I will be posting ideas that may help us to focus on existing relationships and how to put the spark back in them. 

Remember, that focus followed by inspired action is the key to success.  Hopefully, these ideas will help inspire you if you are stumped.  With a little planning, the right focus, and inspiration, Valentine’s Day 2008 can be your best Valentine’s Day ever!  Look for new ideas regularly and check back often!

1.  Take the time to look at your spouse as if you don’t know everything about them.  Look at him or her like you did when you met, with curiosity.  Look for that bit that you’ve missed for all those years.  I’m sure you know that there is no one in your life who knows every little thing about you.  Wouldn’t it be wonderful to be with someone who truly tried to know exactly what makes you happy and took the time to learn the details?  Do this for the one you love.

If you would like to change or create a love life we can help.  Learn to let the Law of Attraction create your ideal relationship with the help of Intending Bliss.  Just visit http://www.intendingbliss.com/find_the_perfect_love.php and sign up to change your life in only 28 days!

Happy 2008!

Are you among the many who will be setting New Year resolutions?  You might want to consider NOT setting any resolutions as your resolution for 2008.  After all, if you are going to change your life in 2008, why put the pressure of a resolution on yourself?  Why not just accept the fact that there are things you would like to change in your life and focus on changing them?  It doesn’t get much easier than that.  And if you are lucky, you will always have things in your life you would like to change.  After all, growth is a natural process.  At one time in your life you probably just wanted a car – any car so you could cruise with your buddies.  Once you had a car, you might have wanted a new car; then a sportscar, etc.  We grow and change and desire is the spark that fuels that growth.

So, what might you want to change this year?  Maybe you want to lose weight.   So, focus on being the size you want to be and let the Universe work out the details.  Maybe you will end up joining a gym and loving it.  You might end up finding a new sport that you love, or you might find a new way of eating that satisfies you.  If you stay focused on the size you are going to be, then you won’t lock yourself into a year of misery.  I mean, gym memberships surge in January.  But there is a reason that the gym is packed in January, less full in February, and so on.  Now I personally love lifting weights so I’m definitely not trying to discourage you from joining a gym.  What I am saying, is that every person is different and if you are open to life, a solution will come to you if you stay focused and jump when the opportunity presents itself. 

Do you want to find a love in 2008?  So, focus on the perfect mate.  Figure out what you want in a person and focus every day on that.  Be open, get out there, and let the Universe bring them to you.

One thing I learned years ago that is a wonderful tool is to take stock of what had changed in my life over the past year.  It is amazing just how much of a difference a year can make if you let it.  So this year, I hope that you will take stock of where you are now, and next year you will find that 2008 has been your best year yet. 

Of course, if you need help with any of your goals or intentions, please contact us at www.intendingbliss.com and we will be glad to schedule you in for a life transforming month of miracles.  Regardless, I hope 2008 is your best year yet!

Word of Wisdom

I was just speaking to a friend about love.  Well, if you have read any of my articles on finding and keeping love alive, you know it is all about focus and the other aspects of the Law of Attraction.  Sometimes however, we need some words of wisdom to shake those feelings of lack especially during the holiday season.  I was reminded of a quote made by another friend of mine.  He said “My ex-wife was one in a million; but look at how many millions are out there.”  For all of you who have been with a “one in a million”, those are definitely words to remember.  With an attitude like that, it is certain that my divorced friend will find his perfect mate.  He is focusing on the possibilities, he knows what he is looking for, he is keeping his mind and options open, and he is actively getting out there and meeting people.  He is working a recipe for success by combining focus, visualization, and of course action.

With that short blurb, I’d like to wish each and every one of you a wonderful, prosperous, blessed holiday season and I intend that 2008 is your best year yet.  For any of you who would like to add that extra edge, please visit us at www.intendingbliss.com and contact us to sign up for our January session.  We will start on January 2 and meet daily for 4 consecutive weeks to get 2008 off to the best possible start!  Don’t you owe it to yourself? 

Are we listening?

I just returned from a 10 day Buddhist retreat.  I had no idea what the retreat was about before I went except that it had something to do with meditation.  It entailed quite long days with lots of intense teachings.  One of the things I found fascinating however, was that during those teachings, the teacher applauded the movie The Secret.  While speaking with one of his students I found out that he considered it “very Tibetan”. 

While speaking with a very devout Catholic I heard how much the Law of Attraction fits right in with the Catholic faith.  Of course, anyone who has seen The Secret or read the book knows they use biblical quotes right in there.

New Agers use energy and the manipulation of energy regularly which is using the Law of Attraction.  It seems more and more religions have been teaching us this principle for thousands of years.  When are we going to get right down to listening?

Robin Maxwell

Have you read about Robin Maxwell?  She was in the news today regarding her fundraising for MS.  According to the article she used Kevin Bacon’s site SixDegrees.org to raise money then started her own organization.  But that isn’t what this blog is about.  What she did was start a clothing line with the logo “Perfect Health” on it.  She knew that she has to see herself in perfect health to achieve it.  Each new person who sees and uses the Law of Attraction in such a broad yet specific way will help to tip the scales in our favor for perfect health, peace, and abundant lifestyles for all. 

Research on the Effects of Intention

Are you, like me, someone who needs proof that something really works?  I was a born skeptic.  My first college degree is in Fisheries and Wildlife and my second is in Business Management – Finance.  Both of them deal with a very “prove it” attitude.  Track everything, monitor the numbers, and see what’s really happening and what techniques work best.  Well, I tend to be that way about just about everything.  When I find something that intrigues me I look for information to back it up. 

Now I teach and coach the Law of Attraction which in my mind gives me license to keep learning.  I recently found the book The Intention Experiment by Lynne McTaggart.  If you are looking for research on the effects of intention, that is, in my opinion the first book you should grab.  McTaggart reviews numerous research projects, their techniques, their shortcomings, and their strengths.  She compiles them all into one easy to read book then invites the reader to become involved in current studies via the internet.

I won’t go into details of this book at this point, though I may revisit it in a later blog as I truly found it fascinating.  I will say however, if you haven’t already gotten the point, that this book is a must read for anyone looking for proof of the power of intention or looking for research on the effects of intention.  If anyone has any other recommendations on the scientific study of intention or the Law of Attraction, please feel free to comment as I would love to check them out.